Quick Update

Hello peeps!!! Sorry for the lack of posts, I promise I will try to get better at this updating thing. The funny thing is, it feels kind of weird to update people or talk about me, all I have ever thought is “like people really care”. But I know that people really DO care – just weird to write about myself you know.
All and all I can’t really complain. Each day is different. There are days where I am very nauseous and days where I feel pretty good. Eating has been a challenge. I feel like every day is an experiment. There are some days where all I can eat are bagels and then other days I seem to do ok with more normal foods. I don’t really like going out to eat anymore though – I just feel like it is a waste of money.

Last Thursday, the 21st was the worst day I have had. I woke up nauseous, dizzy, and felt like a Mac Truck had ran me down. I tried to suck it up and drove into work. But by the time I got to my office I felt worse. I called my chemo nurse and explained everything. She said she wanted me to be seen. Because I was getting hot and then cold, she said that my white blood cell count could be low. Sure enough – it was quite low. So I earned myself four hours at the clinic getting IV meds. Fortunately this Monday, the 25th, when I went in for lab work, my counts were coming back up nicely. I was very happy with that; other wise I would have ended up in the hospital. No thank you!!!

Fatigue is something that I was not expecting. I had plans to carry on life as normal on days when I didn’t have chemo. My body has said other wise. As silly as it sounds, I would much rather deal with the nausea than to feel so tired. I talked to my cousin, Kim, who is a breast cancer survivor to see how she dealt with it. She told me that the fatigue is normal and it will play a big factor in my life for a while. What a hard pill to swallow. Before all of this I was the person who went to the gym at least 5 days a week. Now – I am having trouble even making it there. I went on Tuesday. I made it a mere 18 minutes on the elliptical before I found myself puking my guts out in the bathroom. I will keep on attempting this until I can do it!!!

I have also talked to my boss about having a modified work schedule. I have proposed working 8-3 everyday with a half hour lunch. He said he is willing to let me have a modified schedule but he needed to think about what it would be. I have not heard anything back yet. It was very hard for me to ask for that. I have not had the best luck with my health in my life. And although my work gets done, my time at work has suffered…and now here I am saying “well, something else is now wrong with me…” I hate to show that weakness!!!

Today is a sad day for me. I woke up this morning to find that my hair is starting to fall out. Now, I knew it was coming and I thought I prepared myself for it; but I don’t think anything prepares you for holding handfuls of your hair in your hands. I suspect that over the next few days it will get very thin and I will make that call to my hair stylist to have my head shaved. I keep on joking that it is a good thing I look cute in hats!

Thanks to my awesome friend, Jess, I will be heading to Reading on Saturday to look at getting a wig. I still am not sure if I want a wig, but it doesn’t hurt to meet with someone and look.

So that is what is up. I am still here and I am still fighting!!!! I may have off days – but this fucking cancer will not win!!!!!

Amazed & blessed...

Tonight feels like the calm before the storm.  I had my medi-port placed on Monday and I start chemo tomorrow.  I feel very anxious...I am ready to start whatever it takes to get better!!!  For the last 29 days I have been counting down for this day.  You can only talk about cancer and the plan of attack for so long and I am just ready to get on with it.

It's funny thing, cancer...it changes you.  As I said I am only 29 days diagnosed and I already can tell changes in myself.  I am normally a pretty high strung person (ask anyone) and I tend to worry about everything and everyone.  Now I seem more laid back (at least I think)...things that bothered me before December 15th really haven't bothered me much.  In the grand scheme of things some things just aren't important.  I even feel stronger mentally.  Before when I would get Bronchitis or a Sinus Infection I would let it make me sedentary, now I think a cough or a runny nose are the least of my worries. :-)  I don't how to explain it - but I feel different.

I am so blessed!!!  I have so many people who are praying and thinking of me.  It's funny I have always thought that I wasn't in enough dire need to be on a prayer list and even with cancer I still kind of feel that way.  I always look at it this way, 'no matter what is dealt to me...there is always someone else who is dealing with more'.  Anyway - I feel so blessed that people think so highly of me to reach out to me and/or pray for me.  It all seems different...I usually care for people and now the roles are reversed.  Knowing I have the support of so many, makes me feel so calm and at ease when dealing with everything. 

T-minus 14 1/2 hours until the first half of my first chemo!!!  Let's kick cancer's ass!!!!

So it's all real...

"So it's all real, isn't it?"  That is just how I feel today.  Today I met with the Hem-Onc to set up my chemo schedule.  Can you say information overload???  As of now the plan is to have 3 rounds of chemo and then radiation.  I will be meeting a radiation doctor to make sure I can do the radiation.  The type of chemo I will be going through is R-CHOP.  Which stands for (R) Rituxan - (C) Cytoxan (H) Adriamycin (O) Vincristine (P) Prednisone.  When I heard the "P" I almost called the whole thing off...LOL!!!  I hate prednisone more than any other medicine.  I have been on it so many times for my asthma.  It is a nasty drug!!!  Very helpful, but so full of side effects.  Unofortunately, my worst side effect is weight gain.  I know this seems vain , but I gained a lot of weight from this drug over the years and finally, finally have taken most of it off.  But as with losing me hair...if it has to be done to save my life, well then, so be it.

We sat with my chemo nurse for 45 minutes going over what to expect.  It is crazy, the amount of information there is!!!  I will be having a port placed on Monday so the chemo drugs can be administered.  The doctor, nurse and I decided the port would be the best solution because my veins are crap.  When I had my hip surgery I blew through three IV's in one day!!  And I have had more IV's infiltrate than I can count.  When I told the doctor about this she said that I most definitely getting a port.  If a chemo IV would infiltrate it would burn and scar my skin because of how powerful the medications are.  So Monday at 8:45 I go into the hospital as an outpatient to have the port inserted on my right side near the clavicle.

My chemo nurse gave me a folder with all of the information about my treatment in it.  I swear the thing weighs like 10 lbs!!!  Ok, ok, I am probably exaggerating here, but seriously - it's thick!!!  The list of meds I will be on is crazy. 

I start chemo on January 14th at 1:20pm.  This will be the first half of the chemo (the CHOP part).  Then on Friday, January 15th I will go back in at 7:40am to get the Rituxan.  The Rituxan is the one that has all of the crazy side affects and can have reactions with the body when given for the first time.  This will be a very slow drip - and they will monitor me very closely to see how my body reacts.

Next week will be a very hectic week!!!  And I will be happy when it is over.  I go this weekend to get my hair cut.  I am getting it shorter than what it is now, but I am not getting cut short.  I know this sounds stupid, but I have never had a really high self esteem, but the one thing I have always liked is my hair...so it is hard to know it will be gone by February.  Again...if that is what it takes to save my life...well then, so be it!

Today as I write this I feel overwhelmed, tired and sad.  I am still strong, but even the strongest people have weak days, right???  I am off to bed and hope tomorrow is a good mood day, because I can't stand to be sad!!!!